You would think by the 21st century women would not be slut shamed anymore. Female sexuality has a lot of imposed restrictions and significant negative attitudes about it. It is no secret I am a very sexual person. I am 32 years old, healthy and energetic. I have always had a high sex drive and … Continue reading SDS: MILF Life
End of year reflection: 2020
It has been approximately 364 days since the year started and there are 2 days left in this year. Considering this year is a leap year, there will be 366 days instead of 365 days. Like most people, the year has been a total clusterfuck. I learned that I do not enjoy homeschooling at all. … Continue reading End of year reflection: 2020
E is for effort
Sometimes what we are most afraid of, we need the most to get better. The months seem to be speeding up yet going super slow. This shitty year is almost over. I found my mental health all over the place; but generally more good days than bad days. A lot of my recent issues are … Continue reading E is for effort
Growing up as a black nerd
For as long as I can remember, I have always been a bit of a nerd...well geek in some cases. Yes there is a difference between a nerd and a geek . A Geek usually is an enthusiast of a certain topic or field. Geeks tend to be more collection aligned, and more "matter of … Continue reading Growing up as a black nerd
Changes
Finally I have gotten my shit together with this blog again. I know people would rather watch Youtube, listen to podcasts and such; but to be honest, that is just not me. I do a lot of videos on Instagram so that is the best place to catch my rants and raves. I prefer the … Continue reading Changes
Long time no write
Hey ya'll! *blows dust off blog* I have been super duper busy with life these past few months. I totally neglected this blog. I am back bitches! As you can see, logo change to fit mamas current image and such, but same name. Corona Virus has been a big bitch slap to life but we … Continue reading Long time no write
C is for coconut
CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT Spelling coconut when you are doing the cowgirl position (aka riding) has been the hot topic lately. If you have been under a rock, they say when a girl is on top the trick to the cowgirl position is spelling the word COCONUT with your hips is supposed to be something magical. … Continue reading C is for coconut
WTF is a Quarter Life Crisis?
I hit the big 30 last August and I am only 50 days away from my 31st trip around the sun. My emotions have been all over the place as well as my thoughts about where my future is headed. I have had to assume new roles, take on more responsibilities and adjust the expectations … Continue reading WTF is a Quarter Life Crisis?
Phoenix Series: Shake what your doctor gave you
There are over 30 different antidepressants on the market. I take three different medications daily to control and alleviate my symptoms. It is very tedious finding the right combination of medications when you have anxiety and depression. It took 4 months before we found the right combination for me. I started off with Zoloft which … Continue reading Phoenix Series: Shake what your doctor gave you
Phoenix Series: Snap Out Of It
"I never believed in mental illness until it happened to me." This is something I have heard a few times from different people when they speak about their condition. This doesn't apply to me, however. I always knew it was a real thing. I always knew there was something going on with me, but I … Continue reading Phoenix Series: Snap Out Of It
Phoenix Series: Depression is not a choice
What is the first thing that comes to mind when you hear mental illness? craziness? violence? low intelligence? Choose your words carefully. The words we use to describe mental health can actually do more harm than good. Stigma is a big issue when it comes to mental illness. When I first started to disclose my … Continue reading Phoenix Series: Depression is not a choice
The Phoenix Series
May is mental health awareness month. I plan to use this month to primarily focus on my personal journey. I have openly talked about my diagnosis for a while now, but I am going to go a little more in depth. As mentioned in my previous blog post (Where have I been lately? ), I … Continue reading The Phoenix Series
