For as long as I can remember, I have always been a bit of a nerd...well geek in some cases. Yes there is a difference between a nerd and a geek . A Geek usually is an enthusiast of a certain topic or field. Geeks tend to be more collection aligned, and more "matter of … Continue reading Growing up as a black nerd
Changes
Finally I have gotten my shit together with this blog again. I know people would rather watch Youtube, listen to podcasts and such; but to be honest, that is just not me. I do a lot of videos on Instagram so that is the best place to catch my rants and raves. I prefer the … Continue reading Changes
Long time no write
Hey ya'll! *blows dust off blog* I have been super duper busy with life these past few months. I totally neglected this blog. I am back bitches! As you can see, logo change to fit mamas current image and such, but same name. Corona Virus has been a big bitch slap to life but we … Continue reading Long time no write
C is for coconut
CONTAINS ADULT CONTENT Spelling coconut when you are doing the cowgirl position (aka riding) has been the hot topic lately. If you have been under a rock, they say when a girl is on top the trick to the cowgirl position is spelling the word COCONUT with your hips is supposed to be something magical. … Continue reading C is for coconut
WTF is a Quarter Life Crisis?
I hit the big 30 last August and I am only 50 days away from my 31st trip around the sun. My emotions have been all over the place as well as my thoughts about where my future is headed. I have had to assume new roles, take on more responsibilities and adjust the expectations … Continue reading WTF is a Quarter Life Crisis?
Phoenix Series: Shake what your doctor gave you
There are over 30 different antidepressants on the market. I take three different medications daily to control and alleviate my symptoms. It is very tedious finding the right combination of medications when you have anxiety and depression. It took 4 months before we found the right combination for me. I started off with Zoloft which … Continue reading Phoenix Series: Shake what your doctor gave you
Phoenix Series: Snap Out Of It
"I never believed in mental illness until it happened to me." This is something I have heard a few times from different people when they speak about their condition. This doesn't apply to me, however. I always knew it was a real thing. I always knew there was something going on with me, but I … Continue reading Phoenix Series: Snap Out Of It
Phoenix Series: Depression is not a choice
What is the first thing that comes to mind when you hear mental illness? craziness? violence? low intelligence? Choose your words carefully. The words we use to describe mental health can actually do more harm than good. Stigma is a big issue when it comes to mental illness. When I first started to disclose my … Continue reading Phoenix Series: Depression is not a choice
The Phoenix Series
May is mental health awareness month. I plan to use this month to primarily focus on my personal journey. I have openly talked about my diagnosis for a while now, but I am going to go a little more in depth. As mentioned in my previous blog post (Where have I been lately? ), I … Continue reading The Phoenix Series
Open Letter To My Beau
Dear Zaine, First off thank you for always keeping the toilet seat down. As a young girl I don't think I ever dreamed much about marrying prince charming because I didn't think that I would ever get married. My amazing husband, you are the man that decided to marry my crazy ass. I believe you … Continue reading Open Letter To My Beau
Salt Life: The Glow Up
Those who know me, know that I can be very analytical, caring, and pretty structured all while being unstable (ha-ha). I am opinionated, strong willed, and compassionate. I do lose my shxt sometimes like most human beings, but usually I have it all together. I make sure my kid’s needs are met and they are … Continue reading Salt Life: The Glow Up
K.I.S.S Recipe: Fried Rice
Love take out fried rice? This is the recipe for you! This is very easy to make even for someone who doesn't cook often. Keep in mind you can add or omit whatever you want to fit your taste profile. Okay so let's skip the drawn out stories that most blogs share before they get … Continue reading K.I.S.S Recipe: Fried Rice
