E is for effort

Sometimes what we are most afraid of, we need the most to get better. The months seem to be speeding up yet going super slow. This shitty year is almost over. I found my mental health all over the place; but generally more good days than bad days. A lot of my recent issues are … Continue reading E is for effort

WTF is a Quarter Life Crisis?

I hit the big 30 last August and I am only 50 days away from my 31st trip around the sun. My emotions have been all over the place as well as my thoughts about where my future is headed. I have had to assume new roles, take on more responsibilities and adjust the expectations … Continue reading WTF is a Quarter Life Crisis?

Open Letter To My Beau

Dear Zaine, First off thank you for always keeping the toilet seat down. As a young girl I don't think I ever dreamed much about marrying prince charming because I didn't think that I would ever get married. My amazing husband, you are the man that decided to marry my crazy ass. I believe you … Continue reading Open Letter To My Beau

The Lit Marriage: Doom in the Bedroom

So you spent all this time trying to avoid or achieve getting pregnant and then BOOM! You have a positive pregnancy test. Nine months fly by and then the stork delivers to you the biggest but cutest cxck blocker known to mankind...kids. For some women, sex and intimacy goes out of the window with sleep, … Continue reading The Lit Marriage: Doom in the Bedroom

THE “LIT” MARRIAGE: DATE NIGHT IDEAS Part ii

If you are a millennial like me, going to the movies as a date is played out and pretty much not even fun anymore. With things like Red Box, Netflix and other streaming apps, and not to mention the crazy ticket prices for theaters; going to the movies is just not something that I consider … Continue reading THE “LIT” MARRIAGE: DATE NIGHT IDEAS Part ii

The “lit” Marriage: Date Night Ideas

Looking for some fun and cost effective date night ideas? Well look no further! I happen to be an expertise in this field because we have 5 kids and no designated full time babysitter! We have had to get very creative over the years and utilize things we have at home to have a great … Continue reading The “lit” Marriage: Date Night Ideas

The “lit” Marriage: Never stop dating

  Think back to your life before marriage and kids. You know the stage where you had titles or you were trying to snag that cutie as your own. When we first get with someone, we do whatever we can to fulfill their needs and desires to keep them happy. Fast forward to getting married … Continue reading The “lit” Marriage: Never stop dating

The “lit” Marriage: Love more, fight less

Every couple fights. If someone tells you that they don't then they are lying. There is nothing wrong with having disagreements and such here and there because it's normal. Most healthy couples argue. Some do it more often than others and that is okay too. Conflicts in the marriage can make or break the relationship. … Continue reading The “lit” Marriage: Love more, fight less

The “lit” marriage

Just a heads up: Several of my upcoming entries will be about marriage (or relationships in general). Even though this is a mommy blog, my happiness is one of the key ingredients to me being a good mommy and well overall. My love life comes up pretty often in conversations I have with other people. … Continue reading The “lit” marriage

Every girl wants a man in uniform

  As a kid I loved the movie Top Gun and found myself obsessed with men in uniform. I watched practically like every military movie there is including the cult classic Full Metal Jacket.Movies about fire fighters and police officers, I was all over it. Something about those damn uniforms and ripped bodies and the … Continue reading Every girl wants a man in uniform